I am a fun loving die hard cubs fan. I enjoy getting the most out of life. I love to travel and usually do a big trip a year. I followed phish for a short run at the end of my college career and that started a love of camping and live music. As for other music I like a wide variety including, Umphrees McGee, Moe, DMB, Stones, The Beatles, Wu Tang Clan, and good DJ's you know the ones that still use turn tables, although I must admit the older I get the less time I spend listen to DJ's.
I am a hopeless romantic which continues to burn me, however I have faith that eventually I will meet the right person and this will pay off in the long run. I love summer in Chicago. I usually spend it going to cubs games, concerts, or just going down to the lakefront riding my bike or walking around. I try to get as much out of life as I can. I think that this stems from loosing my mother at a young age. Death has always been in my life so I have been painfully aware of how short life is. That is what drives me to get the most out of the time I have. I believe strongly in the mantra of everything in moderation, including moderation.
I do not have washboard abs, and I never have had them. If you are looking for a guy that has a chiseled muscular body naked in a mirror I am not your man. If you are looking for someone to cuddle up with at night, spend days going on adventures and trying out new things, then I am someone you should meet.
I work somewhat crazy hours due to my job, but always make time for the people I care about. My family and friends are very important to me. My father always taught me that family was the most important thing. I hope to start working on my own family as soon as I find the right women. At this point in my life, I want to find someone for the long haul.
I am looking for a woman who is chilled. It is really important to me that I connect with someone on many levels. While physical attraction is important, it can't be the only thing. I love to camp so I would like someone who is comfortable getting dirty in jeans as well as dressing up when it is time to go out. I want someone to share the moments in life, like new years kisses, 4th of July fireworks, Skydiving, and epic concerts. I also want someone to share life challenges with, because we all need someone to lean on and share our pain as well as our pleasure.
I have a strong belief in god, I was raised Catholic, however I do not agree with many many things that the church has done. So I consider my self a typically Creaster Catholic. I go to mass on Christmas and Easter and may be a couple of other times during the year when I feel the need. I am not a bible thumper and it does not matter to me if the person I am dating believes in the same things as I do in regard to religion. I think it is more important to respect each others views and to be there for each other.
If you are here just to get to know people online, please save both of our times by not corresponding with me. I am interested in getting to know people in person and actually going out. While you need the first couple of e-mails just to get a feel for if you want to go out; I feel that you really get to know people much faster when there is a physical social interaction, rather than a long string of e-mails. That is for once you know each other.
The band/artist I have seen the most live has been Phish for over 12 years.
3 of my other top bands/artists I have seen the most live are Umphrees McGee, Moe, Flaming Lips
On my night off you could probably find me at a show or outdoors in the summer
One of my favorite shows was Big Cypress
A fun show memory is Memory?
My favorite venue is Alpine Valley is nice and close
My astrological sign is Taurus and that gives me the right to Give you the horns
If you like me, you'd better like music and laughter
If I could play any instrument it would be LEGO Harpsichord
Two things that are important to have in my life are Family and Friends
I would love to learn how to Skydive
The quickest way to my heart is getting to know me the quickest way to my bed is to follow me when I am drunk
If im not out seeing live music I am usually Camp
A song that usually gets stuck in my head is Getting to know you lattley stuipd dating sites
If i could choose anything off the dinner menu it would be Steak and Lobster Tail
Usually dance down or Chill /absorb/ head-nod
Lawn or Pavilion
Camping at a festival or 5 Star Resort
Coffee or Tea
Solar or Fossil Fuels
Wine or Beer
Show up with tickets or Find them on lot
Moma Dance or Slave
Sammy Smith or Bud
Free Trade or Fair Trade
a few extra pounds
socially - socially
depends on which ones - depends on which ones
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